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Smash Glam Commercial

Hey everyone,

I am so happy to announce the viewing of my first fashion commercial. The video in full is on YouTube.com (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4qafA-Dd-uc)

We had a blast filming this. Everything went so smooth and it was a perfect day. I was on cloud 9 surrounded by fashion and beauty. That's everything I LOVE! Aisha Simon hands down is my favorite make up artist. She made me look incredibly gorgeous. Special thanks to Tiffany Cody. Her photography skills always make me look flawless and I am so appreciative of this experience. A huge thanks to Roger and Mike for their creative eye and direction. Book Smash Glam NOW! www.SmashGlamSquad.com 




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Valentine's Day looks

Hey loves,
YES! I'm already planning my outfit for Valentine's Day. We have less than a month to create the perfect look for this special day.

Look 1

This look could  be appropriate for a daytime date or even a first date. Lunch at one of your favorite Italian restaurants overlooking the city. If it isn't warm where you are then a nice cream Blazer would look great. I chose a nice nude pinkish lip to play up the girly girl look. Sweet look for Valentine's Day.



Look 2

This look is for a night out on the town. Maybe a muy caliente Mexican restaurant downtown. You can have fun Margaritas with your favorite songs playing throughout the night. Good vibes all night long with your significant other. Hot sexy look for Valentine's Day.



Look 3

If you like the two previous looks then you'll love this look. This is a combination of the two. You can get your hot rocker chic look in addition to the sweet girly look all in one. This look is a true hybrid of my own personal style. I like to be super sexy in black leather but also super feminine as well. I live for a lace up shoe bootie. It makes your legs look sexy and adds a hint of that rocker chic we are going for. The lightning bolt ring and the gold chain really enhance our rocker chic vibe. The daisy earrings and the Candy Yum Yum lipstick bring our girly look back into play. All these items are fun and affordable. Girly Rocker for Valentine's Day.

Follow my instagram to see what I choose to wear for Valentine's Day.




Oohlala Pick Of The Day: Bosede Iyerwarun


Meet Bosede Iyerwarun
Sassy, Savvy & Sexy black business owner.


Please introduce yourself
My name is Bosede Iyewarun. I am the designer, founder and CEO of EarKandie! POParazzi & Celebrity Inspired Jewelry. 

You have some gorgeous jewelry pieces. How did you get started in the jewelry business?
Well, thank you! The story is quite humorous actually. Back when the ORIGINAL Basketball wives debut, I immediately fell in love with their jewelry and accessories. I remember I had just gotten my hair cut really low and I knew big earrings looked great with short hair. I was so fascinated by the styles and colors, I searched the internet for Basketball wife earrings and BINGO! All the huge hoops I was crazy about came up in my search with photos of the celebrity wearing the jewelry. I found 5 different pairs in the jumbo hoops and ordered them off Ebay. I paid $189.00 for 5 pairs of earrings. When it was all said and done, every time I wore a pair to work, I had to keep my friends from trying to take them from me. They were all so persistent, I ended up SELLING 4 pairs OFF my ears! It was at that point, I realized I was not the only one that followed celebrity and paparazzi fashion but a whole lot of ladies also interested in those pieces. I did a little research and discovered the only real places ladies and gentlemen can find celebrity inspired jewelry was either online or in NY, LA or ATL. I decided to make 15 pairs of hoops a few weeks after my ordeal at work and by close of business the day I took in the Hoop Earrings, I had them all sold and $350. Which was my very first investment into EarKandie!

How did you come up with the name EarKandie?
I googled ‘catchy’ business names. I’ve always like the company name SkullCandy….. Headphones by a Hip Hop artist and have often used the term ArmCandy and EyeCandy. My thoughts for earrings went right to EarCandy. Too easy…it was already taken, so I started playing around with different ways of spelling Candy. I love the fact that it worked out to my favor because anything spelled out of its normal spelling is often remembered. When I researched EarKandie! [with the exclamation mark]…it was wide open. So I immediately reserved earkandie.com, .net, .org and .us through Go Daddy and the rest is history! 

What keeps you motivated in your business?
Oh my! Lots of things! For one, never running out of designs. Always coming up with out of the box ideas and being so excited when they turn into masterpieces! Seeing my followers and my customers use and recommend my pieces. Being able to show and demonstrate how easy it is to make your dreams come true. Knowing that what I do and this Gift is a divine Gift from God. Knowing that one day, EarKandie! will be on the map and make its presence known worldwide! Those are the things that keep me going.


Owning a business comes with trials and errors. What's the biggest lesson you've learned as an entrepreneur?
Without a doubt, the biggest lesson I have learned is that everyone has an agenda. You have to be clever and smart and make smart choice in the partnerships you choose to be a part of and the ones you prefer to pass on. Integrity and great work ethic are critical to running a successful and reputable company.

What's your favorite jewelry piece for Summer 2013?
I will have to go with the Gold Body Chain from my “Celebrity Couture Collection”. It can be worn over a tank dress, over a one-piece swim suit or even over a one-piece shorts jumpsuit. It’s quite sexy! Lol


Women in the Kansas City area have a lot of talents and businesses. What makes your brand stand out?
When I started this company, one of my goals was to “be a standard by which all others are measured”. My BRAND is different simply because I do not duplicate any of my designs or pieces. There will ALWAYS be one subtle change. Look closely at two pieces you think may be identical, chances are they are not. You may think that’s impossible but its very doable. I want EVERY client/customer to walk away knowing they have a unique piece all to themselves!

Whats the sole purpose of your jewelry line?
To create and design CELEBRITY  pieces that are almost impossible to find at a very affordable price! I want to design and create pieces that people would never have thought could be made into body jewelry. My target is not just the bracelets, earrings and necklaces. I want to put jewelry on the head, around the shoulder, over your clothes, on your shoes, around your ankles, around your neck and down your back. I want to create something for every part of the body!


Where do you see your business in the next 5 years?
God willing. I see EarKandie! with 3 major store locations in 3 different states and 1 location overseas!

Any up coming events?
Yes! EarKandie! is also a designer participating in the KC Natural Hair Expo August 10th at the Holiday Inn, CoCo Keys Resort. A more detailed list of upcoming as well as past events can be viewed on our website. www.earkandie.com Go to the Events Page.


Contact info?
Toll Free – Call – 1 (855) GET-EARKANDIE
      Local: 913-709-3815
     Email: earkandie_1111@yahoo.com
     Facebook: www.facebook.com/earkandie1111
     YouTube Channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/EARKANDIE



Oohlala Pick Of The Day: Avion


Please introduce yourself.
My name is Avion Wallace. I am a recent graduate from Shaw University in Raleigh, North Carolina but I am a native from Kansas City, Missouri. 
What is your degree in?
My degree is a Bachelors of Arts in Mass Communications with a concentration in Journalism. 


A lot of students enroll in college without really knowing what they would like to pursue. How did you know your major was the right choice for you?
 First entering college I was undecided, however entering the college orientation and the classes they offered I began to look at the ones that was more appealing towards me and made my decision from there.


Taking a full course load and working in college can be extremely stressful. How did you manage your time and stay focused?
I used every second of the 24 hours given in a day to do what needed to be done. Yes, college parties sounded better than homework but thinking about the goal in the end was what made me press on. That and not having to pay for school anymore!
What are some of your future plans for your career?
My future plans for my career is attending graduate school and getting my masters in Public Relations. I want to make a difference by working for non-profit organizations that focus on African American young women. My super goal is to work for My Black is Beautiful or Black Girls Rock!
Any tips to college students who are striving to be the best?
My tip is to never stop dreaming and to always be a self motivator. If you never stop dreaming then you will move mountains and if you keep yourself motivated then who can stop you? NO ONE! 
Let's switch gears here. You've worked retail for a couple years now and you are very fashionable. What are some of your favorite stores to shop? (online/catalog) And why?
 I love to shop at Macy's, Forever 21, Lulu's, Dillard's, Gojane 
I love to shop at these places because they inspire me whenever I shop. When I pick up or see a piece that they are selling, I then see the whole outfit in my mind instantly. If a store or online shop can do that to me, it's a keeper. 

What's your favorite trend this summer that you'll be wearing?
 My favorite trend this summer is single sole shoes, bright pastel colors, major jewelry accessories, and some mesh for the nights out.



How did you manage to stay fashionable for class?
Waking up early and wanting to look fashionable for myself. If I look fashionable for class then I feel confident to conquer the day!
What are some go to pieces in your wardrobe?
- my go to pieces are my: 
-ponte leggings or skinny jeans
-a nice colorful blousy top 
-cute heels or wedges 
- arm candy, big necklace, studded earrings 

Fashion is all about taking risks and expressing ones inner self. What are 3 words that describe your style?
I would describe my style as 
-trendy -cute -diva-ish 

Contact info?


Oohlala Pick Of The Day: Alexandria the songstress

Sometimes having a brief encounter with an individual can alter your outlook on life. For me, it was the better. They pull back the curtains of destruction so that you may see the light;an angel. Assigned to you only, this angel transform your way of thinking, speaking, and all behavioral indecency. When a brief encounter reaches a remarkable memory...

Thank you,
Alexandria


Please introduce yourself.

Hello.
My name is Alexandria.
Age-wise, I am both younger and older than I appear, all depending upon where I am or whatever it is I am wearing.
I am of Hispanic and African American nationality, and am currently majoring in the studies of humanities while also minoring in music; taking classes online.

You are a multi-talented soul. How did your love for music begin?
-Laughs-
Well, first and foremost thank you, and all glory to God.

Secondly, to more directly answer your question, my love for music began as a child.
Out of all of the toys in which I was blessed to have within my childhood, I always spent the most time entertaining myself with the musical ones.

The earliest memory I have is having this colorful mini-cassette player with a plastic microphone attached to it. 
I would dance around the house in only my diaper, singing along to the songs, quite redundantly, "The More We Get Together," and "You Are My Sunshine."

And so from there, I would say that my romance and lifetime of companionship with music had begun.

How has being a songwriter changed your outlook on life?

Honestly?
You begin to find that there are many moments in your life, be it beautiful, tragic, exciting, and/or consciously awakening, in which you want to write about. 
You feel an almost unrelenting inner tugging at your existence to put down on paper whatever it is you're feeling. I guess that also comes with being a writer as well.
However, when you put those words on paper to song, it allows you to capture that moment in a sweeter way; giving you something more grace-given to remember. 


As a song-writer I imagine you get inspired by your surroundings often. Take us through a memorable moment you've had that inspired you to write a song.

Can a question be perfect and insanely intense at the same time?
This is a really good question, Amanda.

And you're exactly right when you say that you can be inspired by your surroundings as a songwriting.
But, it's a bit more than simply your everyday surroundings. You know:

"I went outside.
 I saw a tree. 
It looked really green, 
Now I feel hap-py."

-Laughs-

Yes. It's a little deeper than that, at least for me.

Though, more seriously, I find that I write mostly about emotions; especially love and heartbreak and how the transitioning of our world has expressed itself to me.
And while I am no Taylor Swift in the songwriting love-and-heartbreak department, I'm usually indulged in whichever emotion is present when I write, because it helps so much to naturally feel what you are writing.

A memory I can recall when caught within my emotions, while also having a pen and paper nearby was on the day I was finding closure within a relationship which was heading south.
At one point this individual and I had been over the moon for each other.
I can even say to this day, I've yet to have fallen for someone like them.
They were one of those people in your life where, after them, you begin to subconsciously compare everyone else you may romantically interact with, to the traits of that person; which is a reckless way to love or move on.

I remember feeling distraught and emotionally ill-protected, as if anything else that happened within that day could strongly sway my feelings about everything.
I felt very imbalanced, because slowly-by-slowly I realized I was losing a part of me that was once certain about particular parts of my life, that I'd now have to rebuild or continue to build without that person there.

A few lines I composed in the midst of this emotional-tornado, were these:

Chorus from the song titled: Ready.

"Will-not ask you to stay when you want to leave.
I will not fall down on my knees.
But where is the strength we need to make us believe?

What we had is with us still.
What we need is time to heal.

And I'll be here when you're ready.
Be here when you are ready."

A lot of people I know perceive me to be this happy-go-lucky, skip-off-into-the-sunset-without-a-care-in-the-world kind of person. And I am. But only on Mondays.
And while I'm only joking, I'm being most honest when I say that I am one of the most fragile and strongest people I know.
And to admit that, I believe, comes with when you begin to really understand yourself.


Who are some of your music influences?

Oh gosh.
I'll give you a brief list of my top 20.
To explain why I admire them all would be never-ending.

1. Mariah Carey
2. Tamia
3. Lauryn Hill
4. Natalie Cole
5. Luther Vandross
6. John Legend
7. Deborah Cox
8. Corinne Bailey Rae
9. Chante Moore
10. India Arie
11. Esperanza Spalding
12. Janelle Monae
13. Lianna La Havas
14. Elle Varner
15. Emeli Sande
16. Ingrid Michealson
17. Adele
18. Christian Aguilera
19. Norah Jones
20. Lupe Fiasco


It's not hard to notice your oh so beautiful locks of curls. How long have you been natural?

Oh, why thank you, Amanda.
And as a curl-sister yourself, I do admire how effortlessly gorgeous your hair appears.

I've been a chemically-free natural for about 4 years.
Most all of the women in my family, both Hispanic and African American wear there hair naturally as well.

What inspired you to embrace your natural hair?

The inspiration to fully embrace my natural hair was my culture, new environment and family.

I recently moved from a 5 year stay in Atlanta, Georgia to the Bronx in New York.
Both cities and states are bustling with Naturalistas! 

And in the midst of my 5 years venture of residing in Georgia, my family founded a company called, Good Hair Day Series.
With my two younger sisters and I being the Founder and Co-Founders of Good Hair Day Series Teens.

(Provided below is a link to a site and further explains what the Good Hair Day Series is all about)



What has been the most rewarding part about being a natural haired girl?

The most rewarding part about wearing my hair natural, past the compliments and looks, is how much I feel it is a part of  the real me.
I know there are no heavy chemicals manipulating my natural texture and curl pattern.
I don't have to invert any kinds of extension or weave to further express myself.

Whenever I go to your everyday hair salons in the city, the ones that have a few natural-girls a month, they are always fascinated by my hair.
How it spirals and curls and springs to life expansively.
And how, when treated properly, soft and tame it actually is.


Who is your hair crush(es)?

Oh, that's an easy one.. kind of.

Corinne Bailey Rae
Yaya Da Costa
Solange Knowles
Tracee Ellis Ross
Sophie Okonedo
Esperanza Spalding
Chrisette Michelle
Shingai Shoniwa
Jurnee Smollett-Bell

If you could start all over what are some natural hair mistakes that you would never make again?

I would never make the mistake again of assuming all products for natural hair can be used on any kind of natural hair.
For example: Ms. Jessie's products are terrible in my hair, and believe me, I've tried them all from that brand.

I've come to find that any kind of creamy product must be saturated with a watery based product or in a spray bottle with water to really marinate into my strands. 


What are your 3 must have products?

**CONDITIONER. Point. Blank. End of story.**
But, more specifically: 

1. Kinky-Curly's Knot Today herbal conditioner and detangler.
2. Design Essentials' Curl Stretching Cream
3. The entire products line from Sofn'free's Nothing But series: More specifically the Cleansing Conditioner. It's unconditionally loving to your curls! 

Where can we find you?

I can be found on these social networking platforms:

Facebook: www.facebook.com/songstressa
Twitter: www.twitter.com/serenityinsong
Instagram: instagram.com/songstressaw
Wordpress: songstressa.wordpress.com
Tumblr: lockandkeyheartbeat.tumblr.com

Business Email: songstressaw@gmail.com

Good Hair Day Series: goodhairdayseries.com

Oohlala Pick Of The Day: Brittany Parrish
Meet Brittany
I was scrolling through fashion pictures on instagram and stumbled across a page called Vinty_fresh. What captured my attention the most were the thrifted items. I was in love with all the pieces she had on her page and on her website. She's ambitious and fashionable. What's not to love, right?


Please introduce yourself
My name is Brittany Parrish and I'm from Detroit, MI now living in Dallas, TX.. and I LOVE to thrift!!!

You are a major thrifter and self made entrepreneur. How did you get started?
Well I started thifting as a child with my mother. I wasn't really that into it though until about a year ago when I decided I didn't want to wear what everyone else was wearing. I didn't want everyone having access to what I wore. I felt thrifting was perfect for that, because of the one of a kind pieces you can find there. I started thrifting and every time I went, my finds just kept getting better and better. I started gaining confidence, developing my style, and coming into my own. I embraced it. I was encouraged by my family and friends to start selling my finds on an online store. That's when VintyFreshClothing started. It has taken off ever since.




What defines your style?
Vintage pieces, Colors, Prints, Acid Wash... I like a little bit of everything. I love to stand out. I'm proud of my eclectic yet signature style!

What was the first thing you ever thrifted?
The first thing I ever thrifted was this vintage red and tan crossbody purse. I was in 5th grade when I went to the Value Village with my mom that day and stumbled upon it. I loved that purse.

Give us 3 tips about thrifting.
1. Have patience. It may take a few tries, but once you find that one thing you love, you're hooked for life.



2. Be smart. Thrift stores make it so easy to spend money for TONS of great items with their cheap prices, but you want to be smart with your money. Buy things that excite you, that if you left it there, you would lose sleep over it. If you see something that you feel you will probably see again, or similar to, leave it. Because usually, you find something even better more worth your money.

3. Try something different. See something you like but out of your comfort zone? Try it, what do you have to lose? It's not that money lost if you don't end up liking it, but think of the gain if you did try it and liked it? Challenge your style and see where it takes you.


What's your favorite thrifted piece in your closet?
\My favorite thrifted piece in my closet? Hmm.. that's so hard to choose. I would say it's a toss up between my acid wash jeans and my polka dot shorts.. at the moment!

How do you deal with negativity that's thrown your way? (Can be about business or a personal experience)
I take it, and turn it into a positive. I've always been an optimistic person. I take criticism and negativity as my fuel to do better.


Being an entrepreneur, you experience a lot of trial and error. What's the biggest lesson you've learned since becoming a business owner?
I've learned how to be smarter with my money and spending it. I use to buy everything I seen that I liked. I stopped doing that though, and focus more on one of a kind vintage pieces that would challenge my imagination and style and/or be more appealing to my customer base.

Where do you see your business in the next 5 years?
I hope my business expands, more so in different countries. I want VintyFreshClothing to do well everywhere, and I want everyone to know about VintyfreshClothing and the purpose behind it.


You wake up late. Your hair is a mess and you can't find anything to wear. What would be your go-to outfit and why?
It depends on what I have to do that day. If it's work, definitely a pair of color bottoms and a top to compliment. I have plenty of those to not worry about what I have to wear thankfully. If it's anything else, my acid wash jeans and a casual, but print, top. I don't really that many days where I am stressing about what to wear because I can usually look in my closet, maybe think about my options for 5 min, and come up with something and even if it isn't the best, my confidence in it will make it seem as though it is.


Contact info?
Facebook: VintyfreshClothing

Oohlala Pick Of The Day: Elrean
Meet Elrean
Oohlala Pick Of The Day

Tell me more about yourself.
A young African American woman that haves morals and long term goals. The three things that keeps me self driven are Ambition, Dedication and Motivation. I am 19 years old and I plan to have a long road ahead of me. I am currently the assistant manager at Aldo. This keeps me busy and will show my dedication towards my degree with going to school full time. I plan to transfer to Chicago University and take up Marketing. With Chicago being a big city, this will be the best location for me to network as well to get into the best internships for future jobs.

You have a very chic style. How would you define your style?
 As far as my fashion, I'm a girl that is very simple but loves to look nice. This year I've been very about the blazer looks and now loving the high wasted flair pants look!! I love to look sexy of course but I'm more into a conservative look, you don't have to show everything off to get attention as a woman.

Many women look through fashion magazines for inspiration. What do you use as a style guide?
When looking for a style guide I honestly look at what makes me comfortable in my skin. I love all the trendy styles as far as color blocking and pointy toe heels.

 Who is your style icon?
 As far as people in the industry I love Ciara's style and of course the lovely Beyoncé. 

What are some fashion risks you've taken? Were they good or bad results?
Some fashion risk's I can say I've taken are .... switching my hair color up, & some were nice and some were failure. Black is definitely my favorite. The hair was always styled properly but color doesn't always fit everyone!!!

What separates your style from other women?
 What separate's my fashion from other woman would have to be I pick out clothing I like not to impress any one. Don't get me wrong yes I want to look nice to others. Your dress appeal is what people get a first impression of, yet I choose what makes me happy. 

Where are your favorite stores to shop?
My favorite stores right now would defiantly have to be BCBG and Aldo of course. They both have very diverse style's and I feel in love with there spring collection.
Blazer is from BCBG

What are your favorite summer colors?
 My favorite colors this year towards fashion are coral and mint green. Ladies I'm sure you have seen them everywhere. 


Can you see yourself with a career in fashion? Why or why not?
Could I see myself with a career towards fashion? Not necessary, unless I network in the right direction and have a focus towards that industry with marketing but as of now my focus is towards pharmaceutical with marketing there sales.

OOTD

Outfit details

  • Shirt - BCBG
  • Trousers - BCBG
  • Clutch - Aldo
  • Shoes - Aldo

See more of Elrean's style:

Shirt - oldie
Jeans - Love Culture
Shoes - Journeys
Accessories - Forever 21

Top - Love Culture
Jeans - H&M
Watch - Michael Kors
Glasses - Love Culture
Shoes - Cav 4 Jordan





What are you majoring in at Kansas State University?
I'm majoring in Social Work.

What do you love most about college so far?
My favorite thing about college so far is being in a new town and meeting new people.

What are you most passionate about? And why?
 I love working with kids, especially those who are in need. Majoring in Social Work has really taught me the importance of people no matter their race, position, or class. Everyone deserves equal opportunity and I want to be able to make differences (big or small) in someone’s life. After graduating I hope to earn my masters then find work with some sort of non-profit organization.

What's your favorite memory from your mission trip to Jamaica?
I loved meeting all the children in Jamaica and being able to play and teach them a little about The Lord. My favorite thing was being able to laugh with and love on the kids.


I love your style! What's your thought process when planning an outfit?
 When planning an outfit I first think about what will look most flattering on my body type. I’m tall (5’10) so I have to search long and hard for jeans that are long enough, and for shorts that don’t show too much skin. Second, I choose colors that will look best on my skin tone. My clothing choices are definitely influenced by some of the latest trends, but I try to add a little of my own style into each outfit ;)


I like to keep it relatively simple when I go out. This skirt is just a normal cotton skirt from Forever 21, and the shirt and jewelry are from H&M. Not only do I like to keep it simple, I like to spend only a reasonable amount on clothes. Both of those stores are very affordable


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Meet Sheila Ellis-Glasper

I've known Sheila for a very long time. She has always been a positive, vibrant and kind-hearted person. When I learned of her jewelry line I was elated! Sheila has always been very fashion forward so I knew this jewelry line was going to be the bomb.com. Not only is she beautiful, she's intelligent. Former journalist, now entrepreneur, she exceeds every limitation anyone has ever put on her. The scripture Philippians 4:13 reminds me of Sheila. "I can do all things through Christ who strenghtens me".


Being best-dressed in high school, it's no secret that you are still in the fashion field. What inspired your taste in fashion?
My style has been inspired by everything around me! From my grandmother who always made sure her jewelry/purse/shoes matched with each outfit to reading luxury fashion magazines like Vogue and Bazaar.



How old were you when you knew you were creative?
When I was a young girl, about 4 or 5, I always wanted paper and crayons/pens to draw instead of playing with barbies. I wanted to create my own masterpieces.







Your jewelry line is very fashion forward and unique. How did you get started?
My husband actually wanted a bracelet that was very expensive for us at the time. I was determined to find a similar $250 bracelet for less online. I ended up taking a photo of it to a local beading store where the staff helped me recreate the same piece for a a quarter of the price. I gave the present to my husband for Christmas and he could hardly believe I made it. It was then I realized I had an untapped gift from God. I also saw a need for creating custom and quality jewelry at affordable prices

How did you come up with the name Precious Heart Designs?
The name of my business is totally inspired by my son. My younger sister, Vanessa, helped me come up with it; Precious Heart Shop. Since I had my son he's helped me to realize how precious life is and every single day is a blessing. Each piece is designed from the heart and made with love.


How has your business grown since you've first started? How did you deal with road blocks?
Business has grown tremendously since our start in January 2012. It was just an idea. I began making jewelry during my maternity leave & found a new passion. I started a website and began taking pictures of each creation. Soon sales started coming in. 
My husband encouraged me to get a business license and see where God takes it. We are in May and we have already doubled our sales from last year. God is good! And I'm thankful for the opportunity to be a blessing to others through spreading God's word with jewelry. 





Ms. Paigion, host from the popular BET video-countdown, 106 & Park, in her Precious Heart arm candy!

How do you balance being a wife, mother & entrepreneur? Can you give any tips to the working mother?

I'm still learning this. It can get overwhelming trying to balance each role. First and foremost, God gave me the vision for this business which has become a ministry for me. Which I never imagined that God would call me and use me in this capacity. I am encouraging others through God's word as well as myself! The pieces are all inspired by scripture and are shipped all over the the U.S. and in Europe, Africa, Australia, the Middle East & Canada. I've had customers hang their scripture card (that comes with each piece) on their bathroom mirror, car visor, desk at work etc. That let's me know my work is not in vain. If I can be an inspiration to one person each day, I've done my job. So this encourages me!
 But it helps to have a supportive husband who understands me and my goals as a business woman. He has supported me from day one. I went from making jewelry and filling orders during my son's nap time and when he went to sleep at night to having him in a preschool three days a week. It was hard at first but as the business grew it was difficult to balance working from home and keeping up with a toddler! The older he gets the more active he is and needed to be around other children too. 





A tip: It's OK to get help. I had to learn this. Sometimes you can't get everything done, but just prioritize and get the most important things done. Take help when it's given and don't feel guilty about it. Also set boundaries. I am learning this too still. Learning a time to cut business off and focus on family time. 


What's your favorite jewelry piece you've made?

I would have to say the "Taken" set. Inspired by Maya Angelou's quote: "A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man has to seek Him just to find her."




What was your reaction when you received your first negative comment and how did you deal with it?

Anyone pursuing their passion and going off the beaten path into an entrepreneur lifestyle is going to have opposition from friends and family who are not of the same mindset.


I had to stay encouraged that I was and am following God's plan for my life and this is necessary. 




Best experience so far?
My best experience is hearing positive feedback from clients who love their jewelry and are inspired by it. I have made pieces for people who were battling cancer and a friend custom ordered a piece to encourage them. I love seeing the impact I am able to make through spreading God's word through wearable art. My business is much more than just jewelry. Our motto is " Make a FAITH Statement." The pieces serve as a constant reminder of our faith, that God is always with us through each step of life. 


I absolutely adore Precious Heart Shop designs. I had to get a piece for my mother who is a Minister and loves fun inspirational pieces.


You can also purchase jewelry from Precious Heart Shop and Make a FAITH  statement of your own.




Sheila Ellis-Glasper
Owner/Designer- Precious Heart Designs
~Chic, Handcrafted Jewels Inspired by Scripture~
~Make a Faith Statement ~
1 Peter 2:9

preciousheartdesigns@gmail.com


Style Segments By Shabree
"I'm rocking a powder turquoise blouse (yes I know you can't tell) I got from Forever 21. I like this shirt because it has a pink outline on the inside and since the shirt is short in the front and long in the back you can see it. I paired it with high-waisted leggings and heels."

"I'm wearing a flowy black long sleeve dress from Forever 21. You can wear this with  a belt if you would like.  My blue tights are also from  Forever 21 that's paired with red hot lace up heels that I bought from Charlotte Russe. I love to mix and match and add an edge to it."
You can check out more Style Segments by Shabree on her Instagram page.


Meet Whitley
Whitley is a funny, educated and spunky woman who explores with natural hair styles and techniques in her free time. Whitley gives great tips on her Instagram page (@prettyWhitit) about natural hair and hair care. She has been featured on many natural hair pages showing off her curls.




Please introduce yourself
My name is Whitley. I guess you would know me from Instagram. I'm originally from Dallas, Texas but I went to school in Kansas. I have my Masters in Architecture from K-State. I'm more of a creative person so that's why I got into doing my natural hair and trying different hair styles.





Tell us your hair story?
If you watch the video that pretty much explains it all. I started my hair journey in 2010. I thought about going natural beforehand but it really didn't happen until I studied abroad. I was in Italy and couldn't get a perm so that's what jump started me to go natural. While I was transitioning it wasn't too bad. I did mostly perm rods sets, roller sets and flexi rod sets. When it got longer it got harder because I wasn't ready for the big chop. I transitioned for 2 years. When I got ready to do the big chop, I cut it into a bob. I still wore it straight. That little bob lasted about two days. So I wore bantu knots for a while. I began to travel with my job so I got box braids and washed them weekly. I had those braids in all summer and for a little bit of the fall. I had a ton of new growth when I took my braids down in October of that year. Sometime in December, I started experimenting with my own hair and that's when my true journey began.







Whats a natural hair mistake that you've made?
I regret not getting more of a full sew in because my hair would break off around the perimeter. I had a little heat damage and it was very inconvenient when I did my wash'n'gos.


(Pictured with boyfriend DeMarkus Coleman who was also featured for Man Crush Monday. Founder of KC Sneak Fest)


Have you always liked your curls? If not, how did learn to embrace them?
I have not always liked my curls. At the time when I didn't like my natural curl pattern, my curls hadn't formed yet. It wasn't at its complete natural state, yet. I didn't like my curl pattern until I found my own leave in conditioner. It took me a few months to adjust to it.


What kind of reactions did you get when you first started to wear your natural hair out?
From people of ethnicity, they loved it immediately. My boyfriend was doubtful. When we started talking I was transitioning. I kept telling him “My hair is curly. I'm going to have curls.”, but he thought I was crazy. He thought I was going to do the big chop and be bald-headed. When he saw it, he liked it. I already had friends who had curly hair so I received a lot of love from them as well.
The reaction I got from my coworkers however was a different story. They didn't understand the concept of going from having 20 inch weave to short curly hair. In the work place I prefer something a little more tamed and professional.
I had a positive experience transitioning. I felt free. Then I was like “Oh shoot what am I going to do?” I never really had a negative experience.
The time I most felt unsure or insecure about how my hair looked is when I colored it. It took me a long time to even cut my bangs. I'm the type of person that has to process things for a while and make sure it's a good idea. When I first colored my hair I hated it. I wanted to track my hair growth and the quickest and easiest way to do that is seeing your new growth come in. The hair color was lighter at top and my eyebrows were black. It just didn't look right to me. No matter how many told me it did but eventually it grew on me.





What are your staple hair styles?
As a natural my wash'n'go. That's what I wanted to achieve when I transitioned. And since there are so many definitions of a wash n' go my definition would be my natural curl pattern without any manipulation. Now-a-days, a wash'n'go is whats easiest for you to do whether that be a twist out for the week or what have you. It's just something that's simple for you.

How do you accomplish your wash'n'go?
I think the best way is to show you. I might do a tutorial on it. I use Shea Moisture Curl smoothie, water and Eco Styling Gel and make sure you work it in all over. I use a Denman brush too. Its amazing. It definitely defines my curls.



What are your 3 must-have products?
Shea moisture (the product line), Eco Styling Gel, Denman, and oh wait bobby pins..

What does your hair regimen consist of?
During the week I'm really low maintenance so I do wash'n'gos. On Sunday night, I wash my hair and do my wash'n'go and that's how I wear my hair all week. I need to do a tutorial for the morning routine on it. Because I find it that a lot of people are washing their hair everyday. And usually when it gets closer to the weekend I'll do a wash'n'go again or something new just to be cute for the weekend.




Any hair advice to new naturalistas?
Find someone with a more similar curl pattern to yours so you're not distraught when you cut your hair and your hair doesn't look like theirs. Take a lot pictures to compare your hair from week to week or month to month. It's really what I use Instagram for.

What would you say is your hair goal?
My hair goal would be to get all my hair at one length.
I'm not too focused on hair goals because I know itll take awhile. I wanna grow out my bangs and I want have versatile hair. Meaning, I want to wear a straight style and not get heat damage.


Have you noticed any changes in your hair?
I think from using Shea Moisture's product line or a consistent product has made my hair softer and I don't have a lot of tangling. I notice alot people say they get fairy knots but I haven't had any issues with that. It's way softer and more manageable now.


Outfit details
  • Shoes - Boutique 9 (Nine West)
  • Jeans - Levi
  • Top - Mimi Chica
  • Watch - Michael Kors
You can contact Whitley at

Meet Shalis
An ambitious working woman who balances life in an admiring way. She's a christian woman, educated, gifted and not to mention beautiful. Shalis is a personal role model of mine and has been for many years. She is a supportive wife, mother, sister, and friend. Her vibrant personality and infectious smile can brighten up anyone's day. She is a true definition of Black Girls who Rock.



I've known you for quite sometime now. It's a real blessing to know you but for those who don't know you introduce yourself please.
Hello I am Shalis Brooks. I am a 34 year old woman who loves God first, my family, and my career!

What are your degree(s) in and why did you choose this field?
 I have a Masters Degree in Social Work. I chose this field because I love helping others. I have always been an encourager and to me being able to help others in need is a blessing in itself.

How do you balance a career, being a wife and mother?
Prayer!! LOL  I love that I have a great support system from my wonderful husband and my three children. They keep me grounded as well a busy but it’s so worth it.

You are a role model and inspiration to young women everywhere. What drives you to be so successful?
 My upbringing. I look at my role models which are my grandparents and my parents and they always inspired me to do my best and be the best I can be and it has helped me to become a better career woman as well as a better wife and mother. There is a quote I have in my office that I read every morning that states : In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. And that is why everyday through faith I know I will succeed!


What advice would you give the younger generation that's looking up to you?
 Be yourself! I see to many young people following after their peers and not having a mind of their own. That scares me because they have so much potential but they aren’t using it because they are worried about what others will say. Who cares!

Isn't being natural so much fun? When did you decide to go natural? And why?
 I LOVE being natural. I decided to go natural two years ago thanks to the help of Christina Phillips and I am so glad I did. I decided to go natural because I was tired of getting relaxers and the grade of hair I have and my curl pattern there was so much I could do going natural and have not regretted it.


What is the most rewarding part about being natural?
 I can wear a different style at any time. The Versatility.



What does your regimen consist of?
  My daily regimen is shea butter, coconut oil, and Shea Moisture Organic Hold and Shine Mist. But I use lots of other products depending on what style I am doing.

Any hair tips?
Keep your hair moisturized! Also cowash once a week and do a deep conditioning treatment once a week!







Hailie
Meet Hailie. Hailie is a super mom that has crazy ambition. She's sweet, smart and beautiful. Also being a naturalista, Hailie gives great hair tips on her Instagrampage. She also discusses products and does reviews for hair care and posts many DIYs for fashion.

Tell me a little about yourself.
I am 22, a Leo, and bi-racial. My mother is black and my father is caucasian (Irish). I attend K-State and Manhattan Area Technical College for the LPN program. I work at a retirement village full-time in Manhattan, Ks. I am a single mother of 1, Daylan Foreman, who is 2 years old. I am a major thrifter, I like to write and I'm a big time reader.

Being in the medical field, what do you most enjoy about it?
I most enjoy the relationships I develop with the residents/patients or as I like to call them “friends”.

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
In 5 years I see myself as a hospice nurse working for Florida Hospice and palliative associates. Also with an online boutique where I sell some of my THRIFTED finds.

How do you balance having a career and being a full-time mommy?
It takes a lot of patience and time to organize my schedule but I enjoy them both and I'm very passionate about them both.

You have a super creative style! What or who do you use as your inspiration?
My fashion role models are Kylie Jenner and Khloe Kardashian. I absolutely love ANYTHING Gwen Stefani wears and I Instagram stalk Jasmine Sanders!

Favorite stores to shop?
My first love is ANYTHING thrifted! Any Salvation Army or Goodwill. I love Guess, Wet Seal and Charlotte Russe

Any style tips to give?
Don't be afraid to experiment. And a smile with confidence is the best make-up!

Outfit details
  • Yellow Blazer - Wet Seal
  • White Crop Top - Target
  • Blue Jeans - Charlotte Russe
  • Wedged Heels - Charlotte Russe
  • Bracelet - boutique
  • Gold Necklace - Wet Seal




Shelonta "La La" Briggs
Christian Diva
Meet Lala Briggs. Lala is a devout christian who also has a wonderful  taste in fashion. At my previous job, I went through training with her and each day we would compliment each other on our outfits and natural hair styles. Just when it couldn't get any better, we both share the love of the color yellow.

How long have you been natural or transitioning?
My first naturalversary will be in August.
How long was your transition?
Almost a year, I think.
What made you return back to your natural state of hair?
My hair stopped growing and was super damaged because of relaxers so I didn't have a choice. It was either have thinning straight hair or thick nappy hair.


Outfit Details
  • Multi-colored Romper - TJ MAXX
  • Brown Belt - Forever 21
  • Blue Sandals - Target
  • Sunglasses - Wet Seal
  • Yellow Clutch
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SHABEBA MCDONALD
            Shabeba McDonald also known as Shay grew up in Germany. In her younger years she uprooted to Atlanta, Georgia. When Shabeba reached high school, she noticed that she had an unconventional style compared to her classmates. In the 10th grade, she picked up a fashion magazine to get ideas of how she wanted to transform her style. Shabeba began to sketch clothing ideas. Already knowing how to draw, she came up with some remarkable sketches. Her designing inspiration came from Alexander McQueen, Valentino and Pierre-Yves Rochon just to name a few. Shabeba's most memorable creation was her graduation dress. It was an off the shoulder wine colored dress. Creativity has no limits.
Up Coming Events
Overland Park Marriott
April 28, 2013 
7pm
www.coiffure-couture.com

Contact


Aisha Simon
                      Aisha Simon is a make-up artist extraordinaire. She's given unbelievable makeovers in the last couple of years. Aisha is an experienced licensed cosmetologist. Her passion for beauty began at a young age watching her grandmother apply false eye lashes and styling hair wigs. When she got a little older she started styling her siblings hair as well as her own. Aisha noticed that she had a talent. In 2007, she had gone out of town and noticed that the people were doing more than bare minimum when it came to their appearance. She wanted to look her best. She went on YouTube to practice with the cheap make up she had bought from the Dollar Store just to see if she had a good technique. She realized make up was an art and she had a longing for it. This is when Aisha decided to enroll in cosmetology school at B Street International Hair Design and graduated in 2010.
                In 2012, Aisha went full throttle into her beauty career. Now that she was licensed she developed a clientele and charged the prices to fit her talent.

UP COMING EVENTS
Overland Park Marriott
April 28, 2013 
7pm
www.coiffure-couture.com



Make Up 101 For The Beauty Professionals- Raising The Bar
May 13, 2013
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Tiffany Cody
Tiffany Cody – Noted fashion photographer.
Tiffany has always loved taking pictures. In high school, she was apart of her school's Newspaper staff as the photographer. Tiffany noticed the way people reacted to her camera. At first, photographer was her hobby then she began to get paid for it. Now, photography is her life. She lives, breathes and eat photography. Even now, Tiffany is discovering more and more about the business. What really captures Tiffany's heart is the process of developing film. No longer are photographers going to the black room, Tiffany heads to the white room and photoshop to create the perfect look! “It's an ongoing journey but i'll never know enough. I'm loving the journey.”, says Cody.
UP COMING EVENTS
Kansas City Raw Artists
May 22, 2013
rawartist.com





Meet Ashley F.
Oohlala Pick Of The Day
Outfit details

  • Blue Jean Sleeveless Shirt - Love Culture
  • Pink Leggings - Love Culture
  • Strappy Heels - Forever 21
  • Ring - Forever 21
  • Gold Watch - Michael Kors


Esmeralda P.

Hispanic free lance fashion designer and stylist in the Kansas City area. Esmeralda has created multiple pieces for women, men and children. Esmeralda is working on a children clothing line as well as still designing for women and men.
Outfit details

  • Entire outfit from Forever 21


Street Chic
Outfit details

  • Black Graphic Tee - thrifted
  • Pants - remade bleach washed
  • Yellow Fitted - Spencer's
  • Dark Blue Jean Jacket - Forever 21



Mandy: What inspired you to become a fashion designer?
Esmeralda:
 "I started making pillows and blankets with my mom. She taught me how to sew. I've always been artsy and creative so it pretty much started from there. I have always had an inner passion for clothing. My passion mainly came from being the middle child. I knew I wouldn't get any new clothes so I would tweak it to fit my style. My aunt really encouraged me once she saw my spark. She would show off my remakes at family gatherings giving me the confidence to take it into profession."

See more creations by Esmeralda on Instagram



Oohlala Pick Of The Day
Allie E.
Natural Fatigue
Can you tell she just BC'd a few months ago? With the new look, this naturalista has created her own Urba
n Chic style.  Allie has an eclectic style and each style genre fits her personality. Follow her urban-esque trends & natural hair tips on Instagram & Twitter.
Outfit details

  • Blue Jean Shorts - DIY
  • KU Shirt - Kansas Sampler
  • Fatigue Jacket - Authentic Military Jacket
  • Skull Bracelet - Elite Threads
  • Red Vans - Journey's





DIY
Outfit details
  • Sweatshirt - DIY
  • Dark Wash Blue Jeans - H&M
  • Nikes - Foot Locker
  • Blue Purse - Steve Madden

Oohlala Pick Of The Day
Marceena S.
All Black Everything
Meet Marceena. She is a Style Guru in the greater Kansas City area. She goes beyond the limits when it comes to fashion.  I met her my first semester in college in our Fashion Fundamental class. You can follow all of her fashion moves on Instagram.
Outfit details

  • Black Sheer Top - Armani Exchange
  • Black Leggings - Armani Exchange
  • Cream & Gold Purse - Steve Madden
  • Caramel Boots



Oohlala pick of the day
Shabree C.
Fashionista at its best. Shabree likes to mix & match to bring a new flavor to each outfit. You can follow her fashion trends on her Twitter & Instagram.
Outfit details

  • Black and White shirt detailed with bow ties - Forever 21
  • Royal Blue Pencil Skirt -  Forever 21
  • Orange Round-Tee Heels

Deja
Outfit details

  • SnapBack - Canal St in New Orleans
  • Crop top - Forever 21
  • Burgundy Corduroy pants - NYC
  • Shoes - foot action
Ooh la la pick of the day. Follow her on Instagram

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